It’s Your Sex
Make it better with your Partner
and it is all free!
What is this?
The Concept
Communication on Sex
Couples may face difficulties in communication regarding sex due to a variety of factors, such as lack of communication skills, discomfort discussing the topic, or differing desires or needs. It is important for couples to actively work on improving their communication and understanding each other’s perspectives in order to have a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.
Our Approach
Sometimes hitting a topic that is sensitive to one partner, can completely shut down a conversation. Our questionnaire resolves that by only reporting the areas of sex that are agreeable or worth more discussion in a format that does not commit either partner.
What You'll Learn
You will learn areas of mutual sexual interest, these may be things you are already doing which you can build on, or areas where for whatever reason you have not brought up with your partner.
Some basic assumptions
Taking the quiz we have made some basic assumptions:
- You are not a sexual novice.
- You are in a loving and caring relationship with your partner.
- This should not be part of a compatibility test.
- You are already comfortable with each other, engage in sex, hugging, kissing and other intimate touching.
Why aren't homosexual couples covered?
We don’t have any experience in that area.
The Questionnaire
How Does it Work?
First Partner
You get the ball rolling by starting the questionnaire, at the appropriate time, the system will send a link to your partner to answer their part of the questionnaire, while you continue to answer your part.
Second Partner
Your partner would like to see if there are any areas of your sex life that could be enhanced or expanded. Sometimes these conversations can be awkward, so this questionnaire will cover what you might like to add or be open to adding to your intimate moments. It does not mean your partner is unhappy, it just means that they are trying to find a way to communicate both of your desires to get as high a level of satisfaction and intimacy as possible.
The Questions
Just answer each question honestly.
- Nope – means this action is not going to happen, at least at this stage of your life and relationship
- I’m open – means, let’s discuss it some more, but I am probably not going to instigate the activity on my own. You may want to set some boundaries first. Both partners must respond I’m Open or Yes for the activity to show on your report.
- Already happening – means this is part of your current sexual relations, and no discussion needs to happen.
- Yes – here we go! Definitely would like to do this in some way.
What You'll Learn
Your answers are compared to your partner’s answers and we will remind you with what you already are doing, (one or both of you answer “Already happening” or we get an “Already happening” and a “Yes” response). Next we will give you a list of things you both want to get going, “Yes” responses from both of you. Finally, a list of suggestions to talk about, things that one or both of you answered “I’m open”, and neither of you responded “Nope”.
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You will need 15 to 20 minutes to complete the questionnaire.
